He wants him back....

On the 21st we will be having a counsel led mediation hearing... regarding the parenting order that has been in place since the domestic violence charges were laid in May 2008.
It is such a tangled web I am in... puts me in a position where I have to double check every single decision because the safety of my six year old is so very important. Then with the very same token, on the 21st of January we are going to Criminal Court to give testimony because of a breach of the protection order back in 2008.
What a roller coaster ride of legal limbo to be caught in.... and the whole time I am waiting for immigration to decide on the verdict of whether I can stay or whether I have to leave the country.
With an order from family court to not remove my son out of the country, it will be difficult to be the sole custodian of his care if I am asked to leave... what a complicated situation domestic violence can put you in...
I wish I could hear from other women caught up with the same situation... what do you do?